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Andrea Oriend posted a condolence
Saturday, April 15, 2023
What a treasure your mom was! She was so supportive of all of us as kids, whatever it was, a show, dairy bowl, dairy judging, or any other endeavor- you could count on a positive wish from her. She always took the time to ask how things were going and to listen to the response. She also loved any chance to cheer on her grandkids or talk about their accomplishments. Our hearts are with you as you navigate the coming days, weeks, months, years.
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Julie Santiago posted a condolence
Saturday, April 15, 2023
Your mother will always be with you- in the lessons she gave, the life she shared, and the love she showed.
What a beautiful, wonderful lady! She will be truly missed. I always looked forward to the times she stopped into my office and I could chat with her and enjoy her company. Always made me smile!
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Don & Margaret Robarge posted a condolence
Saturday, April 15, 2023
Sue was a lovely lady! We always enjoyed visiting with her on our visits out.
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Marcy Morling posted a condolence
Saturday, April 15, 2023
Your mom was simply an amazing human! I have the fondest memories growing up with her as a strong role model. Your mom will live on in all of you.
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Kathy & Rich Nastasi posted a condolence
Saturday, April 15, 2023
Back in the 80's, when our children, Jason & Jennifer, were still young, we visited Sue. We hiked into the woods and all the kids made a "fort". The next day Sue gave us a grand tour of the dairy farm! We all had the best time ever!! This is just one of the many happy memories we have of Sue. She will always have a place in our hearts.
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Uncle Jeff Peterson posted a condolence
Saturday, April 15, 2023
Sue had it all. You all will keep her memory alive.
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Far Away Aunt Robbie Peterson posted a condolence
Saturday, April 15, 2023
Sending love and hugs to all of you for this huge loss. To know Sue, was to know love!
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Diane posted a condolence
Saturday, April 15, 2023
Sue...(Well, it's always Mrs. Bossard to me.) This is one amazing lady! I have known her as far back as I can remember. She always had that super, amazing, bright smile that could definitely light up a room!! This woman was a true role model to so many! During my 4th grade-year of school, we were placed in the high school due to construction. I had the privilege of being in her classroom. She and Mrs. Hereth did such an amazing job at making us feel comfortable in high school at such a young age. We definitely had a lot of fun that year. One I will always remember!
Out of all the memories I have of Mrs. Bossard over the years, there is one that I will cherish forever! I was usually a fairly shy and quiet student. But, this particular year, I would constantly be coming up with stunts to play on her.... although in a fun goofy way. ❤️ Luckily, it usually worked out and I don't ever remember getting in trouble although I probably deserved to be in trouble a few times. This particular time, I brought in a battery-operated mouse stuck in a trap. I turned it on and put it on the floor. This was definitely unexpected. It scared Sue and Mrs. Hereth, but they laughed so hard after the fear left them. They never let me live that down. In fact, at the end of the year, they gave me a gift; it was a pair of earrings. One earring was a mouse and the other was a mousetrap!! Definitely one of those stories that stuck with us over the years.
Life has so many ups and downs and being a kid can be so scary at times. Everyone has their own battles to deal with, and we all react differently. Teachers, unfortunately, have to face those actions head on. One thing is for sure, (Sue) Mrs. Bossard, always greeted everyone with a smile and a positive attitude! She could make a bad day turn around. She was so understanding and compassionate and such a good listener. Somehow, she was always calm and patient when we were not on task, and she had a way to get us re-focused. She always went above and beyond for everyone.
Mrs. Sue Bossard will be remembered as a cherished friend, teacher, role model, and so much more to me and so many others! I will never forget her and her warm welcoming hugs every single time I saw her. If I could say one last thing to her, I would tell her how grateful I am to have had her in my life and how much of a difference she made. She helped me get through some tough times and didn't even know it! She made me feel like I was family. Over the years, I've become friends with this beautiful family and you are all such wonderful people! Just remember all of the life lessons she has taught you and try to hold tight to them! She will always be watching over you and helping you get through this crazy life. I am truly sorry for your loss. And as sad as it is that she is not here with us, she wouldn't want anyone to be upset or stop doing what you enjoy! So, wear your smiles and keep her memory going.
Sending love you you all!
Diane Shinebarger and family
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Jean Brown posted a condolence
Thursday, April 13, 2023
We are deeply saddened about Sue passing too soon. Sue was someone who made a difference in so many lives including ours and our 3 children. I first got acquainted with Sue at the Elementary school when she was sustitute teaching. It was about the time Maggie started school and a very rough patch for Sue. I immediately liked her and knew we would be friends. I soon had Maggie as a 1st grade student and then all 3 girls had Bob in 6th. Sue later became our colleague. We also saw each other at our kid’s school events. Like so many, ours benefitted from Sue’s 4-H leadership. Sue was a people person and I still visualize her smiling and laughing as she got a kick of of something a student or adult did or said. She was pleasant to be around and always interested in our family. No matter how busy she was she seemed relaxed as she took time to talk. Then we shared the excitement of family graduations, weddings and grandbabies. She was the most dedicated & involved Grammy I know. I am still amazed at how she kept up with it all! Somewhere in those years we became even closer as she joined our “Home Bureau” group. We had so many fun projects and outings. Many times Sue had to miss or came late due to a commitment to the grandkids/family. She had her priorities in order.
When we approached the “empty nest” phase, I decided to set her up with a blind date. That didnt go well, which was a good thing. Shelley came along who was a much better match with farm & music interests. After they were married we invited them to attend ballroom dancing lessons in Hornell and we had a blast!
Another memory was going with them to see a Kenny Roger’s Christmas show in Elmira. Sue made chili and had us for dinner before the show.
Like many have said Sue’s love of music carrried over into teaching I remember her telling how much fun she had team teaching with Lynn Hereth. Lynn played the piano and both ladies loved dancing & singing. What great enrichment for those students!
I admired so many things about Sue: her faith & strength of character, her tireless devotion to family, her sense of humor and story telling, her kindness and compassion, & her friendship & her love for others. Our deepest sympathy to Shelley, Kim, Kate, Maggie, and all the family.
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Paula Quanz posted a condolence
Thursday, April 13, 2023
I was blessed to have Sue as a coworker, fellow 4-H mom and friend. Her unending dedication to her family and her extended family was unsurpassed. The love, faith and patience she displayed while balancing so many different things as a single mom was an inspiration to me and so many others.
I was honored to be able to participate in her memorial service and will always carry her in my heart.
Remember she will always be with you as she is part of all of you.
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Thursday, April 13, 2023
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the Bossards & the Jimersons; this is our story...
We met at St. Paul's church when Maggie & I were about two years old; her beautiful mother was our Sunday School teacher. My first memory of mama Sue is from a Sunday morning in January when we were all sitting in small brightly painted wooden chairs downstairs at church during Sunday school. It was my birthday and she had a plastic cake with candles, there was a small penny slot on one side that she had us place pennies in for our number of years. She had us count our blessings for our age and then she sang "Happy Birthday Sara Beth" to me (she loved to sing. she especially loved to sing to children) I will never forget how the sun was shining through the stained glass windows, she looked like an angel in the light celebrating the birth of a child.
THIS WOMAN. She was not only a Sunday school teacher, she was also an elementary school teacher AND a farmer, AND the most amazing mother to 3 daughters: Kim, Kate & Maggie. She gave her whole life to them. I always admired her for her steadfast faith & strength. I always will.
My Maggie Marie is my sister. I cannot ever remember us not being together. How truly blessed we are to have had this lifelong gifted bond built on faith & love. I have never not had faith in my Mags. She makes my life so rich & my heart so full. ALWAYS.
St. Paul's is also the great founder of the three Sue's. Sue Bossard Atherton, Sue Stutzman & Sue Jimerson. Now that is one trifecta that no one would ever even think about messing with. It makes me smile thinking about all of the memories of them together I will holdfast to them and keep them close to my heart forever.
Dear God,
As we mourn the passing of Sue #1, may you enable her family & loved ones to find comfort and safety in your name. May your voice soothe their pain and strengthen them in their weakness. Please guide me to helping her in every possible way that I can.
Amen.
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Zachary Matthew posted a condolence
Thursday, April 13, 2023
Mrs. Bossard was a teacher that you did not have to seek out in crowds, because she stood out. When I think of my childhood, her classroom is one of my first, and favorite memories.
Going into adulthood, I would see her at different sporting or community events, and much like she always had, she stood out. Her eager hug and her honest thoughtfulness of my well-being was as genuine as it was when I first met her in 2001.
A true testament to her master craft of teaching.
I still say, "rude, crude and insensitive" in my head when someone is being unkind, just as she spoke aloud all those years ago.
It was easy to find Mrs. Bossard: the teacher that always stood out. This word will forever be a little less "rude, crude and insensitive" because of her.
Rest well, Mrs. Bossard. I'll always look for you.
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Steve Donlon posted a condolence
Thursday, April 13, 2023
I was so sad to hear about the passing of your mother. She was an absolute peach of a person and I felt she always looked out for me in school being that we both had a farm background. She did so much for so many and it's sad to see her go. I'm truly sorry.
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Deb Reed posted a condolence
Thursday, April 13, 2023
I was shocked to see the post about your mom. Seeing her took me back a few years ago to a time when her classroom was across from mine. She always wore a smile that warmed the heart. Very sweet and kind person. Please know that my heart goes out to you and your children. I'll keep you all in my prayers.
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Chandra Lindsay posted a condolence
Thursday, April 13, 2023
I am so sorry to see the news about your beautiful Mom. She was such a huge part of my childhood and I have very fond memories of her. She was such a strong and kind woman. Sending you all love and hugs. Such a loss...
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Kelly Stutzman-Grim posted a condolence
Thursday, April 13, 2023
Sending my love to you. Your mom was the best and one of the kindest ladies I ever knew. She was a very special friend always to mom. Prayers during the difficult time. My memories at church with all of you I hold close. Hugs and love always.
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Vicki Cook posted a condolence
Thursday, April 13, 2023
I am so sorry for your loss. I loved your Mom very much and I am so sad. She loved your girls and her grands with all of her heart and was so proud of each and every one of you. Sue was an amazing woman, mother, friend, sister, wife and grandmother and will be so missed. Love you all and please let me know if there is anything I can do. Always, cousin Vicki
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Christa Owlett posted a condolence
Thursday, April 13, 2023
So sorry to hear about your mom. She was one of the reasons I went into teaching. I'm so glad I was able to chat with her this summer and let her know that. She will forever hold a special place in my heart.
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Thursday, April 13, 2023
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Robin Bossard-Robarge posted a condolence
Thursday, April 13, 2023
Eulogy from Robin E. Bossard Robarge:
For anyone that doesn’t know me, my name is Robin
Bossard Robarge and I am the daughter of Don and Kathy Bossard. I’ve always called Sue “Aunt Sue.” I think the reality is that we are lost in the cousin world. If you know the complexities of the Bossard girls and our difficulty in tracing and explaining exactly how we are cousins...well then, you know this is not an easy task. Add to that a spouse who grew up in Johnstown and settled in cow country - - it
becomes even more complex. So here is the deal – we made our own version of what constitutes “close family.” And Sue was my Aunt Sue.
I am sure you have heard of the phrase, “It takes a village to raise a child.” I know this phrase has been around for so long, but I could be convinced that Sue came up with it herself. Sue played a starring role in my village. It helped that all of us Bossard girls traveled in many of the same circles. We were always doing a lot of the same activities – a lot of 4-H and school activities. And Sue was there to help get us ready and teach us, and transport us. I can
remember singing along to the radio in her car, probably snacking on a sleeve of saltine crackers... and Sue reported that I was a soprano and Kate was an alto. She loved to sing. For as long as I knew her, you couldn’t say anything that wouldn’t get turned into some song lyrics and a happy tune. Or you would wonder who was singing harmony on Happy Birthday and look around and realize it was Sue.
I must admit that I didn’t fully appreciate the magic that Sue made in all of the things that she did, until I was a mom and trying to manage it myself. How did she teach full time, plan and implement weekly 4-H meetings that taught us how to cook, sew and finish projects {OUTDOOR COOKERY????} AND she was an amazing mom to three active young girls? (And let me just say that they were not always the easiest to manage... - looking at you Maggie!)
Sue didn’t always get things right. She was not perfect. But what she did the BEST, was she operated from her heart, and she was always genuine and loving. Sue was humble. She was loving and kind. She was involved. She smiled and asked questions and she cared about the responses! And
she modeled all of that for US.
Here are some things that people online have said about Sue:
"Sue was the sweetest and a big part of my childhood, in church and on the family farm."
"All three of my kids had her and what a wonderful and caring teacher!"
"Your mother has been an inspiration and instrumental part of our education system and community for as long as I can remember. She
inspired me to always be better with everything I do."
"She was my favorite teacher. I remember being in second grade and wanting to be just like her! I started out my career as a second grade teacher, she was an amazing lady. There hasn’t been a year of teaching that I haven’t thought of her or shared a story about her with someone. Over the years when I would see her I would always thank her and I made sure she knew how important she was to me. I think of all the kids that she shaped over those 30 years!"
"She was my favorite teacher and was the most caring woman. She introduced me to the Beatles in 4th grade and that was the first time I truly fell in love with music. I will always remember her."
"One of the reasons why I became a teacher was because of Mrs. Bossard. Your kind soul will certainly never be forgotten!"
"It was always a joy to be with Sue at school and sports events. She included all of the kids in her cheering along with her grandchildren and extended family. She will be missed and I am sure I will catch myself expecting to see her at the little league fields."
"Sue was passionate about her pupils – a class act teacher, but her life came into full bloom loving her children and grandchildren. She was so proud of her daughters and their kids."
So remember the line about “it takes a village?” Sue lived that. She modeled that. If your child was messing around, she stepped in. Probably more accurate would be the warning given BEFORE any child even thought of messing around! (Remember who you are.) No “teachable moments” were missed on Sue’s watch. She treated me like one of her girls. She made countless kids in this valley happy, smarter, and probably more appreciative of music and poetry.
As Sue grew older, she grew richer. She grew richer in all the ways that really matter. And she went from being Mom and Aunt Sue...to Gramie Sue and Nana. Her heart grew as every grandchild was born. She finally learned what really busy looked like after she retired and tried keeping up with grandbabies and their schedules! She had so many joyful moments with Shelly, and hosting gatherings at their home.
So as we come together to honor the life that Susan lived, I think of her and I am thankful for everything that she gave to us in our lives, and for teaching us how to love as deeply as she did, and to give as freely as she did. I know she is watching over us. We just need to keep loving and living and making her proud.
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Koralee Elizabeth Dininny posted a condolence
Thursday, April 13, 2023
Good afternoon, my name is Koralee Dininny and I would like to share some words in honor of my grandmother.
Susan Bossard Atherton, I had the pleasure to call her my grandmother, Grammie Sue.
As I'm sure almost all of you here know, us grandkids could be just a little bit difficult at times Whether we were arguing, physically fighting (quite literally demolishing one another on the ground), scheming something up or just uncontrollably laughing, Grammie still never failed to give us all nothing but her undivided attention and love.
Now, if you know our family, I'm sure you've heard Grammie yell, "That's the Devil's music!" Us grandkids would always get mad when she would tell us we shouldn't be listening to Macklemore. Well the explicit songs at least, but for some reason we didn't like the clean version, it just wasn't as good ya know? But Grammie would still always let me play the music even when we would play her least favorite song, but us kids' favorite song, "Thrift Shop" by Macklemore. And let me tell you, if you ever heard Grammie get mad, it was when we would tell her the moms let us listen to the unclean version and sing some of the bad words!
But, it evened out when the most famous Grammie question would come up, "What was your kind deed today?" And all of us would sigh and probably roll our eyes. Then we would think of something kind we did. Grammie always had several kind deeds and was proud of all of them.
Grammie always talked about dance and how she loved it. She enjoyed watching us dance so much. Her most famous words when talking to us about dance were, "Just keep dancing!" She always used to tell us no matter what happened on stage, we had to "just keep dancing!"
My last conversation with Grammie was actually about dance. She was very tired and not really opening her eyes in the hospital, but I knew she would want to hear about dance. So, I told her about dance and that when I left I was going to go back to the dance studio for the rest of my classes. I didn't have to, everyone told me to just go home and get some rest, but Grammie and I shared that same passion for dance, a sense of home and happiness. Then, she gave me a smile and said she couldn't wait to see us perform on stage this year. It won't be the same without her there this year to watch.
Grammie wasn't just a grandma to her grandkids, she acted as a grandmother to many more. She never treated any of them different. She loved them all as her own. Grammie was a harmless soul, (minus the traffic cone she would occasionally take out, claiming she never saw it!) and she never did anything but love her family and friends unconditionally, and for that we will forever cherish her.
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Sara Beth Jimerson uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, April 12, 2023
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Last night Mama Sue B. came to me in my dreams…
It was the first time Grace Place saw cows.
Maggie’s cows. Her arms were around us & then she said “Sara you WILL get through this. Remember who you are…”
Then I woke up. It was so very real. She helps restore my faith. My Bossards; I would never be me without you.
P.S. I love how the last photo looks like my baby is getting smootches.
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Kim Randall posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 12, 2023
My mom was a positive role model to so many people. She was passionate about teaching her students and watching them bloom into kind and caring adults. She was unselfishly on duty every hour of every day with open arms and an open heart. With enduring patience and inner strength, she gave so much for my sisters and I, sometimes at her own expense. When we were involved in any event, it didn't matter if we were playing a sport, participating in a 4-H activity, a dance recital, a band or chorus concert, or some other activity, she was always there to show her support. Even when I was 3 hours away at college, she drove out to see me in a play.
With her unfailing love she was always there for me no matter what. Her ability to soothe my every hurt. In the many ways she showed she cared always made me feel like I belonged. She taught me right from wrong, and pushed me to do the right thing, even at times when it was hard to do. She assisted me with my school work and helped me study for tests. My mom always protected me. She took care of me when I was sick, and her love helped make me well. I remember her home cooked meals, always packing my school lunches, her homemade brownie pudding, her baked goods, and the picnic lunches during cattle shows. She would French braid my hair before my dairy cattle shows and made sure my hair was up and out of the way for my dance recitals.
She was a dependable source of comfort and my cushion when I fell. She helped in times of trouble and supported me whenever I called. She had rules, and I learned that when I obeyed them, my life was simpler, better, and richer. My mom was and will continue to be a guiding light in my life. She was my teacher, my comforter, my encourager, appreciating all, and forgiving all.
She enjoyed and relished in the accomplishments of her grandchildren.
When my mom asked someone a question and got the answer "I don't care", she would always say, "Do you want to hear the toast story?" The moral of the story is if you want something then you need to speak up.
Sometimes I took my mom for granted, but I don't now. I know that everything I am today related to my mom and her loving care.
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Andrea and Joel Oriend posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 12, 2023
Sue was a special woman, and touched so many lives. She was quick with a smile, always took time to ask how you were doing, and was so proud of the accomplishments of those around her. In recent years, we had the pleasure of running into Sue at many school events as Kaleb and Caleb grew up. Whether it was a sporting event, an awards ceremony, or any other function, Grammie Sue lit up with joy being surrounded by her loving family. We will miss her, and you will all be in our hearts as you face the days ahead. Sending you so much love.
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Wednesday, April 12, 2023
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July 11, 2015 - Our wedding and reception. Sue was holding Abbie, who was quite interested in being with Maggie. Robin, Sue, Kate, and Karoline at our reception.
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Brianna Chandler posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 12, 2023
She was a wonderful women, Me and Nate had always looked up to her and always came to her for anything. She was the first one to know about mine and Nate's engagement and she was so excited and happy. Although Nate was looking forward to her being there for us, she will always be in our hearts.
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Chanda Lindsay posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 12, 2023
I have such fond childhood memories of “Sue Boz”. She was truly like a second mother. Just an amazing influence. A super kind, strong, beautiful and creative woman. She was always there for us. I will never forget our 4-H experiences under her leadership. Life lessons, for sure. And the fun we had piling into “Old Bessie” for yet another adventure with our best friends and their super cool Mom. So many wonderful memories! So much love to Sue’s wonderful family!
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Shawn Bossard posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 12, 2023
I spent a lot of time growing up on my Grandfathers farm on the Turnpike. Sue was just up the road. She was the same age range as my parents, aunts, and uncles there, even though she was technically one of the cousins. As the farms were side by side, everyone knew what everyone was doing. Sue was one of my “aunts” when I was young, and I remember visiting often. She was a great influence to a really young kid.
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Rachel Hatch posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 12, 2023
Sue helped teach me the card game “up the river down the river”. I have fond memories sitting at Aunt Margie’s table filled with family and her smile and laugh lighting up the room. She will be missed.
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Kim Smith posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 11, 2023
I will cherish my teenage years, as I was lucky to do a lot of babysitting and meet new families- the Bossard family was one of them. I always looked forward to being with the three girls and I am sure that I remember more of those times than Kim, Kate, and Maggie remember.
Later, as I became a mom, I realized how hard it was to leave my kids with a babysitter - hoping that they would pay full attention to my children, they would play with them and they would be cared for and be safe. I want to thank Sue for always picking me to babysit and being comfortable with me watching her three pieces of china.
As time passed - I can honestly say that every single time I ran into Sue, she always had that beautiful smile and we had such great conversations. I will cherish these for the rest of my days.
To Kim, Kate, and Maggie - I am glad that I got to take care of you and want you to know that your mom is a very special person. So genuine, so caring, and so friendly. Heaven must be beautiful, as they just gained another beautiful soul.
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Julie Robertson (Bossard) posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 11, 2023
There are so many memories that flood my mind when I think of Aunt Sue. Sometimes the best memories are the most simple such as our drives to and from Sunday school. Singing in the car and teaching me the difference between a road and an avenue. Memories of having her as a 4th grade teacher which meant visits to her house started with homework corrections. Memories of the frequent phones calls to let her know Buddy (the family dog) has made his way back to our house. I cannot even count the amount of times I was given the toast story. Maybe my favorite was the way she decorated a birthday cake or the look I got if I ripped a gift open instead of trying to save the paper. As I grew older I saw her less but the love and caring never faded. Great life lessons from her are now being passed down to my children and don’t worry… I will always remember where I came from.
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Michelle (Maxson) Lovell posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 11, 2023
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I have so many wonderful memories of Sue , both at St. Paul’s and staying on the farm after church and on weekends with Kim. Sue always made me feel welcome and always had a smile on her face. Her beautiful smile is what I’ll remember the most. May the memories of her give you comfort during this difficult time.
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Brianna Chandler posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 11, 2023
She was a great women, she was always there for me and i always enjoyed talking with her. She was the first one to find out about mine and Nates engagement and she was so excited and happy for us.
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Kate Dininny posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 11, 2023
My Mom….
She is not far; she is always near-
In the memories that you hold most dear.
My mother will be remembered as many things: loving wife, sister, and aunt, dear friend, inspiring teacher, and incredible Grammie, but to me she was mom, and the very best one there was.
She taught me to love with my whole heart, to dream big, to be fiercely independent, to be kind, honest, and respectful and to always have faith.
All her teachings could be summed up in her classic words to all of us, “Remember who you are…and where you come from!” How could I forget? She reminded me daily. As I left her classroom and headed to practice, “Remember who you are!” As I ran off with friends, “Remember who you are!” I would often roll my eyes and shout back, “Yeah, Yeah, and where I come from – I know!” Even as I left the house on my first blind date with Jason, “Remember who you are!”
Reading all the heartfelt memories people have shared about my mom, reminds me of who SHE was, a strong, independent, kind, loving, incredible woman that was the absolute best of mothers. The mother others wished they had.
So, how do I move on without her constant presence in my life?
By remembering who I am. I am part of her, so she will help me to also be strong, kind, independent and loving. I will take it one day at a time, thinking of her, and remembering who I am, because of her.
I love you mom.
Love, Kate Elizabeth
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Zachary Matthew posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 11, 2023
Mrs. Bossard was a teacher that you did not have to seek out in crowds, because she stood out. When I think of my childhood, her classroom is one of my first, and favorite memories. Going into adulthood, I would see her at different sporting or community events, and much like she always had, she stood out. Her eager hug and her honest thoughtfulness of my well-being was as genuine as it was when I first met her in 2001...A true testament to her master craft of teaching. I still say "rude, crude, and insensitive" in my head when someone is being unkind, just as she spoke aloud all those years ago. It was easy to find Mrs. Bossard: the teacher that always stood out. This world will forever be a little less "rude, crude, and insensitive" because of her. Rest well, Mrs. Bossard. I'll always look for you.
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Christa Owlett posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 11, 2023
Just wanted to send hugs to you and your family. So sorry to hear about your mom. She was one of the reasons I went into teaching. I'm so glad I was able to chat with her this summer and let her know that. She will forever hold a special place in my heart.
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Laura Cone-Lewis posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 11, 2023
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your mom. She was a great lady. She was the reason I became a teacher. In the 16 years I have taught not a year has gone by that I haven't thought of her or spoken about her to someone. At the beginning of this school year during an in-service day we had to write about and share an experience where a teacher impacted our lives - I wrote about your mom. She will be greatly missed! Sending you and your family my love and prayers.
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Steve Donlon posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 11, 2023
Maggie, I was so sad to hear about the passing of your mother. She was an absolute peach of a person and I felt always looked out for me in school being that we both had a farm background. She did so much for so many and it's sad to see her go. I'm truly sorry.
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Amber Kimball posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 11, 2023
She was the best! My rock, guardian angel in 2nd grade. Loved her and our talks as an adult.
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MAGGIE PLACE posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 11, 2023
There are some things that hold true once you’ve met my mom. She has undoubtably asked: “What was your kind deed for the day?” and she has definitely told you with total sincerity and fervor: “Remember who you are.”
Most likely she has left you with inspiration, love, encouragement and at times frustration - due to her strong will, or due to the fact that everywhere we went we were stopped by a former student or a student’s parent thanking her for being amazing.
If her children or grandchildren had an event, whether it was academic, sports, a dance recital or just pumpkin carving in the backyard – she was there. She wouldn’t miss spending time with her family for anything, because honestly, she had her priorities in line. It didn’t matter whether I was living far away or on the farm, she would be there to listen and guide me. There are no words mom. I love you.
So, in lieu of flowers, tears and sorrow let us all carry on her legacy for tomorrow.
Be kind.
Keep your priorities in line.
And for goodness sake “remember who you are.”
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Kristen Lain posted a condolence
Saturday, April 8, 2023
I remember when Sue found out my son was autistic, she grabbed my shoulders and said "You where made to be his Mom, God has a plan!" I will always remember that..years later she would always ask about how he was doing and told me if I ever needed anything at all come find her she would help and give a hug or squeeze my hand and tell me I'm doing a great job...wonderful friend
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Laura Stutzman/dunning posted a condolence
Saturday, April 8, 2023
Your mom was such an amazing person. I remember coming over to your house to play when we were little Maggie and your mom was always in the kitchen cooking up a feast. I remember when we would sneak home after a night out and wake up hearing your mom say “ I wonder what time they got in” Sunday school, growing up in church together. She was the best. I love you guys!!!
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Kim Smith lit a candle
Saturday, April 8, 2023
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I really enjoyed working with Sue at the school during my years student teaching and subbing. Afterwards whenever I saw her anywhere she always remembered me and greeted me with a smile. Such a wonderful lady.
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Kathleen (Agone) Nastasi posted a condolence
Friday, April 7, 2023
Sue was one of my best and dearest friends since high school. We both went to college at SUNY Oswego, joined the same sorority, and were roommates at the sorority house on West 7th Street. In 2019 we went together back to Oswego for our 50th KPhi sorority reunion. Sue was still that down to earth, fun loving, wonderful person!! I will miss her and our phone conversations so much.
My deepest sympathy to Shelly, Kim, Kate, Maggie, and your families.
Love, Kathy (Rich) Agone Nastasi
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Bobbie Kohut posted a condolence
Friday, April 7, 2023
I am sorry for the loss of your Mom, grandmother, and friend , Susan. I was a sorority sister of hers at SUNY Oswego and we sang in the Symphonic Choir. From reading her obituary, I see she was so involved in the lives of many people in her life as a teacher and church member. She will be greatly missed by all. I hope the family in time will find peace and comfort.
Bobbie Swaney Kohut, Ithaca, NY
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Dawn Mormino lit a candle
Thursday, April 6, 2023
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So sorry for your loss. I remember her always sitting in church in the same pew surrounded by family and friends. Hugs and prayers from the Mormino Family.
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Shannon Lacy posted a condolence
Thursday, April 6, 2023
Dear Maggie, Kate, Kim, Shelly, and Family, I am so sorry for your tremendous loss. Sue was an absolute treasure. Growing up, I could always count on her amazing positivity, wonderful sense of humor, and genuine engagement with me and anyone in her or her kids' lives. I always loved talking to her, probably because she had a way of making people really feel heard and seen. Although I have only very rarely had the chance to see her in recent years (ok, decades), I count myself extremely blessed to have known her, and was very saddened to hear of her passing. I wish you all my sincerest condolences. You are in our prayers on the other side of the world.
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Mary Ann Chura posted a condolence
Thursday, April 6, 2023
Sue was a wonderful friend and teacher. Our group of 4-6 grade teachers had our own little wing and shared many laughs together. Sue always had a quiet presence in the life of her students but was known to raise her voice on occasion. It was always a treat to meet her in the grocery store and "catch" up on the news.
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Ann Zeltwanger posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 5, 2023
I’ll always remember Sue as a teacher but more for as a person who always took the time to talk with me.. She came to so many sporting events to support her family. Always positive.
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Jen Rhodes uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, April 5, 2023
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Aunt Sue & Shelly after Tyler's Christening, at Saratoga Racetrack.
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Kim Clifford Wood lit a candle
Wednesday, April 5, 2023
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I am so very sorry for your loss. What a beautiful person, she was. She will sadly be missed by everyone who knew her. Can’t believe it. May God comfort you all, during this sad time. Prayers
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Marcia Crandall posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 5, 2023
Prayers and sympathy to your family. Im so happy she was part of my children’s lives. She always asked about them even as they became adults. A wonderful lady. She had a heart of gold❤️
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Christine Butler posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 5, 2023
I am so sorry and saddened to hear of your loss. She was a wonderful lady and I enjoyed knowing and working with her.
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John Knipler posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 5, 2023
I remember when we were both kids my father would drop us off at Kathlene Cavanaugh's Dance Studio. I would wait patiently while Susie tapped her little feet off. She was always the star performer at the Studio's Annual Review.
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Mike Stanton posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 5, 2023
Shelly I am very sorry to learn of the passing of your wife. My prayers go out to you and your family.
A Memorial Tree was planted for Susan Bossard Atherton
Wednesday, April 5, 2023
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We are deeply sorry for your loss ~ the staff at H.P. Smith & Son, Inc. Funeral Home - Canisteo Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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The family of Susan K. Bossard Atherton uploaded a photo
Wednesday, April 5, 2023
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